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Teens and Drugs

Believe it or not, adults like you have an amazing ability: you can reach high-risk teens. Yes, even teens struggling in school, or with parents who have severe problems of their own. Such is the power of a caring adult in a teen's life. Research suggests the influence of a mentor can 

  • Reduced first-time drug use;
  • Cut first-time alcohol use;
  • Cut school absenteeism;
  • Improve family and peer relationships; and
  • Increase confidence in schoolwork

What Adults Who Mentor Say
A nationwide survey of 1,500 adults who mentored youth other than their own children said:

  • They helped with or prevented problems for a young person.
  • They found their experience very satisfying.
  • They learned or gained something personally from their experience.
  • They would mentor again or recommend a friend.

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About Mentoring

  • A key goal of mentoring is to provide a caring and supportive adult for youth at risk.
  • Mentoring relationships offer youth the chance to overcome hurdles, cope with problems, and learn basic skills necessary for a productive, healthy adulthood.
  • Mentoring makes a difference. The challenge lies in expanding programs to reach a greater portion of youth at risk and to recruit new mentors.

But What Do I Do with the Youth?
Almost anything. The important thing is to spend time with your teen on a regular basis. Engaging in a wide range of activities and offering guidance to the young person (when it's asked for) is what will make you successful. Activities can include:

  • Playing a sport together, walking or hiking
  • Talking about the youth's personal issues
  • Eating a meal together
  • Hanging out or running errands
  • Outings to the library, museum, concert, play, movies or sporting events
  • Working on homework
  • Discussing and researching college or career opportunities
  • Job shadowing or internship opportunities
  • Learning social skills or manners
  • Learning job related skills
  • Being introduced to other people who could help them with educational or career goals
  • Exposing youth to cultural, social and entertainment opportunities they would not otherwise have